Heartwood The Art of Living with the End in Mind
Created by Barbara Becker
A compassionate chronicle of the lessons - and the love - that death brings to our lives.
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Made in USA
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When her oldest childhood friend was diagnosed with terminal cancer and living out her last year, Barbara embarked on a quest to write about how to live with an accepting awareness of death. Through remarkable honesty and lyrical storytelling, Barbara shows us that there are life-giving lessons in death and that grief itself is a pathway to healing, love, and enduring strength. She weaves a deeply personal narrative of end-of-life stories drawn from her own family, her experiences as an international human-rights advocate, and her work as a hospice volunteer at New York City's Bellevue Hospital. Along the way, we encounter extraordinary people and truths revealed at the place where life and death meet.
A compassionate gift for anyone living with loss, this chronicle invites us to experience a new and unguarded relationship with the dying, the dead, and death itself. Printed in the United States.
"In Heartwood, Barbara Becker inspires us to follow our curiosity into a world of love and loss that is both universal and a source of our uniqueness. And what could be better than that?"
-Gloria Steinem, bestselling author and activist
About the Maker
created by
Barbara Becker
Barbara Becker is an award-winning writer, a mom, and a perpetual seeker who has worked with human-rights organizations around the world. As a hospice volunteer in New York City, she has shared time with hundreds of people at the end of their lives and sees each one as a teacher. Barbara has served on the faculty of the Master’s Program in Strategic Communications at Columbia University, and is a sought-after speaker on a wide range of topics, including spirituality, writing, and deepening our sense of meaning.
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7.125" L x 5" W x 1" H; 224 Pages
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Hardcover
Item ID
53307
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